Trick Mirror

Trick Mirror

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  • Author:Jia Tolentino
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Summary

A breakout writer at The New Yorker examines the fractures at the center of contemporary culture and identity with verve, deftness, and intellectual ferocity–for readers who’ve wondered what Susan Sontag would have been like if she had brain damage from the internet。

Jia Tolentino has become a peerless voice of her generation, tackling the conflicts and contradictions and sea changes that define us and our time。 Now, in this dazzling and entirely original collection of nine essays, written with a rare combination of give and sharpness, wit and fearlessness, she delves into the forces that warp our vision, demonstrating a stylistic potency and critical dexterity found nowhere else。

Trick Mirror is an enlightening, unforgettable trip through the river of self-delusion that surges just beneath the surface of our lives。 This is a book about the incentives that shape us, and about how hard it is to see ourselves clearly in a culture that revolves around the self。 In each essay, Jia writes about the cultural prisms that have shaped her: the rise of the nightmare social internet; the American scammer as millennial hero; the literary heroine’s journey from brave to blank to bitter; the mandate that everything, including our bodies, should always be getting more efficient and beautiful until we die。 Gleaming with Jia’s sense of humor and capacity to elucidate the impossibly complex in an instant, and marked by her desire to treat the reader with profound honesty, Trick Mirror is an instant classic of the worst decade yet。

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Reviews

declan

This book is simply a combination of a memoir, random history lessons, and quotes from other writings, the "generosity, sharpness, wit, and fearlessness" as described by critics was not present whatsoever。 I was pretty disappointed in this book, to the point where I stopped reading it because I just got sick of hearing Tolentino’s opinions on random topics。 The only essay of the 6 of 9 that I read that was somewhat intriguing all of the way through was the first one, titled “The I in Internet。” This book is simply a combination of a memoir, random history lessons, and quotes from other writings, the "generosity, sharpness, wit, and fearlessness" as described by critics was not present whatsoever。 I was pretty disappointed in this book, to the point where I stopped reading it because I just got sick of hearing Tolentino’s opinions on random topics。 The only essay of the 6 of 9 that I read that was somewhat intriguing all of the way through was the first one, titled “The I in Internet。” But, similar to some of the other essays I will elaborate on, Tolentino just restated things I already knew regarding the way algorithms work and how that enforces white supremacy and misogyny。 “Reality TV Me” was boring af 😴“Always Be Optimizing” was literally Tolentino quoting other writings by other authors and elaborating on them slightly to validate her opinion。 The venting about athleisure, Sweetgreen, and barre I thought were random but made sense in the context of the essay, yet I did not always agree with what Tolentino was going off about。 You can tell in my annotations that some of the points she was making about feminism were decent, but by now they were definitely not new ideas and my apologies for already knowing that mainstream feminism only works because it fits into the patriarchy and capitalism, and it doesn’t go against it at all。 This essay just reiterated my opinions on feminism and didn't prove any points that were life-altering。 “Pure Heroines” just explained how literature reinforces that every woman’s destiny is being a wife and mother, and that her life was only interesting when it revolved around men。 OMG, Tolentino, I completely did not realize that most male authors who write about women being the main character in their books only discuss their past traumas as if that is the only thing that defines a woman! WOW, I had no idea, thank you for telling me this over and over! This essay was entirely composed of book titles of various books throughout history and quotes from "The Second Sex" by Simone de Beauvoir。 At this point, I'll just read that instead, thanks。"Ecstasy" was the most memoir-based essay and it was about Tolentino's experience with Christianity and how that lead her to doing drugs。 I was not that influenced by religion growing up so this essay did not stick with me at all。 It included a multi-page history on hip-hop that I did not find necessary to the essay。 Congrats on finding yourself。 "The Story of the Seven Scams" - my god was this boring。 Mostly talked about the history of Facebook (points made regarding this topic were already discussed in another essay), the history of #Girlboss culture (points made regarding this topic were already discussed in another essay), and how Amazon exploits their workers (old news by now。 avoid purchasing from Amazon)。 I literally could not get myself to read the section titled "The Election。" At that point, I had to stop reading。I skimmed the last essays, "We Come from Old Virginia," "The Cult of the Difficult Woman," and "I Thee Dead。" None of them sparked my interest so that was the end for me。 My biggest issue with the book was the fact that Tolentino did not go out of her way to recognize her privilege。 Plenty of the topics she discussed throughout this book made it possible for her to build a career and write this book on her life, experiences, and opinions。 You would think that someone this "educated" and "leftist" would be able to include a bit more about the advantages society had given Tolentino leading up to her publishing this book。 The only times she acknowledged queer people was through stereotypes 😵Overall, I am upset I wasted time reading this book because it literally just talked about things I already knew。 Similar to Untamed by Glennon Doyle, this book is written for people who have never had a thought about how fucked up society is, except this is definitely written better。 I don't really recommend this book! 。。。more

Eada Gendelman

Tolentino is an amazing writer and brilliant thinker who beautifully connects different events and ideas to one another。 I wanted so badly not to be bored by this book, but I often was。 It took me a long time to get through this text, and although I was in awe of some specific passages, I don’t feel “wowed” overall。 My favorite essays were the ones about Tolentino’s personal life。 Perhaps if I had read this when it was published in 2019, I would’ve felt differently?

Colette Brown

Some chapters were more interesting (aka less academic) than others, but generally I give every section a 3。5-5 stars。 The style she uses to write and explore complex ideas made me feel both like she’s an expert and curious

Esthershollar

Thoroughly enjoyed this series of thought-provoking, socially relevant and often funny essays。 Tolentino’s writing on some of the most pressing cultural issues manage to make sense of the highly polarized, internet fueled odd existence we’re all living in。 Her commentary on the internet and social media in particular, was very engaging。 Favorite essays included “The I in the Internet,” “Always Be Optimizing,” “The Story of a Generation in Seven Scams” and “I Thee Dread。” Even as a millennial, I Thoroughly enjoyed this series of thought-provoking, socially relevant and often funny essays。 Tolentino’s writing on some of the most pressing cultural issues manage to make sense of the highly polarized, internet fueled odd existence we’re all living in。 Her commentary on the internet and social media in particular, was very engaging。 Favorite essays included “The I in the Internet,” “Always Be Optimizing,” “The Story of a Generation in Seven Scams” and “I Thee Dread。” Even as a millennial, I sometimes have difficulty summarizing my feelings around these complex, somewhat dystopian realities we face。 I found it to be a somewhat slower read but only because the essays were dense, well-researched and required a bit of focus。 。。。more

dani

hmmmm if i could give a 3。5 i would。 a couple of the essays were excellent, a couple were good, and a couple (mainly the super autobiographical / niche ones) i found a chore to get through and i’m going to blame them for me taking 10 months to finish this as once i got stuck on one i didn’t take to it was really difficult to push on

Andre

Thoughts coming shortly。

Heloise

It was the perfect book for me as it built upon ideas i had vaguely thought of but never fully worked through and added on to/combined other ideas which I agreed with。 I liked how Tolentino recognises and admits when she is hypocritical which is not necessarily a bad thing as sometimes it is inescapable and she also often looks at and criticises both sides of an argument especially politically which i liked because i hate when people act as if one side is perfect。 The format and style was also v It was the perfect book for me as it built upon ideas i had vaguely thought of but never fully worked through and added on to/combined other ideas which I agreed with。 I liked how Tolentino recognises and admits when she is hypocritical which is not necessarily a bad thing as sometimes it is inescapable and she also often looks at and criticises both sides of an argument especially politically which i liked because i hate when people act as if one side is perfect。 The format and style was also very accessible to me, an 18 year old who usually wouldn’t reach for a book of essays yet the slightly informal tone made it an enjoyable read not weighed down with unnecessarily complicated terminology yet I was always aware that her analysis was serious and top notch。 Overall I would recommend it to anyone but particularly older teenage/young adults as it is a good bridge from basic theories to something more complicated that isn’t out of your depth。 However I am also trying to get my mum to read it and anyone who I’ve met in the past week since I started。 。。。more

Libby

well written, well researched, but felt like i was reading a new yorker-style summary of internet discourse。 loved ecstasy。

Alara Guvenli

This book was eye opening in every single way and I have so many pictures in my camera roll of passages that I just couldn’t bare to part with, that demanded to read again and again。 Incredible first read and one of my first nonfiction books in a looong time

Ben Moosher

Help! I’m obsessed with myself!

Gili

Some of the most thought provoking well researched essays I've read in a while。 Most were a bit too long for my taste, but I'm really glad I picked it up。 Some of the most thought provoking well researched essays I've read in a while。 Most were a bit too long for my taste, but I'm really glad I picked it up。 。。。more

Alice Harbin

I haven't finished reading this book, but I'll write something to remind myself where I left off。 This was a PBS/NYT book club pick。 It's a 30 something author essentially telling how she grew up with the internet at a young age and how she feels that it isolates people from each other。 Then she goes on to talk about how the females in adult books are only interesting and vibrant until they marry and have children。 Women are only valuable to society to provide sex for the men and children for so I haven't finished reading this book, but I'll write something to remind myself where I left off。 This was a PBS/NYT book club pick。 It's a 30 something author essentially telling how she grew up with the internet at a young age and how she feels that it isolates people from each other。 Then she goes on to talk about how the females in adult books are only interesting and vibrant until they marry and have children。 Women are only valuable to society to provide sex for the men and children for society。 She quotes many authors whom she states bear this out。I found it very difficult to understand the beginning of the book because I never had an iPhone or computer until I was in my 60's。 I didn't understand her language, but I do connect to her view of the role of women in today's society。 。。。more

McKinnon Brown

this is probably one of the worst books i’ve read recently。 of course she is a hillary clinton stan。 everything that is ‘tradition’ is sexist。 just don’t get married and shut the fuck up。 not everything was bad, just like nothing i didn’t already know essentially。

Alana

3。5 stars actually :)

Aimee Coburn

Really powerful commentary on different aspects of humanity and the state of the world。 Jia is a great writer。 This book took me a long time to read because of it's depth but I appreciate her points。 Really powerful commentary on different aspects of humanity and the state of the world。 Jia is a great writer。 This book took me a long time to read because of it's depth but I appreciate her points。 。。。more

Jo

4。5 stars*Another incredible read! Trick Mirror is all about the different aspects of culture and society that we collectively accept in order for ourselves to be accepted into society。 Doesn't that sound completely awesome and totally mind-blowing? I loved the idea that self delusion is a main player in our everyday life, so much so that we don't even notice it anymore。 I loved some stories more than others, but they were all important for different reasons。 Here is one of my favorite quotes fr 4。5 stars*Another incredible read! Trick Mirror is all about the different aspects of culture and society that we collectively accept in order for ourselves to be accepted into society。 Doesn't that sound completely awesome and totally mind-blowing? I loved the idea that self delusion is a main player in our everyday life, so much so that we don't even notice it anymore。 I loved some stories more than others, but they were all important for different reasons。 Here is one of my favorite quotes from this book: "It's possible if we want it。 But what do we want? What would you want--what desires, what forms of insubordination, would you be able to access--if you had succeeded in becoming an ideal woman, gratified and beloved, proof of the efficiency of a system that magnifies and diminishes you every day?"These essays were *chef's kiss*。 As a woman of color, Tolentino's works really spoke to me, and as a reader, I appreciate how Tolentino's writing was both to-the-point and breathtaking (my favorite combo)。 I'll never stop thinking about how valuable this book is。 。。。more

Matt Meade

Love love love。

Hannah Rick

I was so disappointed :( I was super excited to read this, but the only essay that I was skimming pages on was Heroines。 The writing was really good, but something was lacking for me。

Ariel

The Sweetgreen critique was on point。

Laura Nicoll

My favourites were Always Be Optimising (a lot of funny moments in this one, I laughed out loud), The Cult of the Difficult Woman (absolutely brilliant conversation on this topic) and I Thee Dread (challenged my thoughts on marriage)。 I loved the tone of this book, funny, witty and sharp and it challenged my thought process behind a lot of issues。

Daniela Castillo

Cuando leí el término de millenial geriátrico no se me vino a la cabeza una asociación, pero ahora que leí este libro, la encontré。 Lamentablemente esperé más de lo que debí y ni siquiera lo terminé porque me está aburriendo leer demasiada explicación sobre cosas que la mayoría del público objetivo de este libro, sabe。 Sinceramente no sé a quien va dirigido esto, pero a mi definitivamente no。 Hay párrafos que rescato, pero también mucho texto que podría estar resumido。Sin exagerar, este libro fu Cuando leí el término de millenial geriátrico no se me vino a la cabeza una asociación, pero ahora que leí este libro, la encontré。 Lamentablemente esperé más de lo que debí y ni siquiera lo terminé porque me está aburriendo leer demasiada explicación sobre cosas que la mayoría del público objetivo de este libro, sabe。 Sinceramente no sé a quien va dirigido esto, pero a mi definitivamente no。 Hay párrafos que rescato, pero también mucho texto que podría estar resumido。Sin exagerar, este libro fue el primero que hizo que me empezara a saltar páginas con el dolor de mi corazón (porque odio hacerlo)。 Llegué a la mitad。 No pude más。 。。。more

Paul Vaughan

Strap in for a self-absorbed millennial pity-party in nice prose。

Anna Juliette

literally the best book ever, will reread, everyone should read this

Mark Ferguson

So many wondrous and thoughtful essays about growing up in the age of the internet。 She manages to pull these wildly disparate elements together (in one case: catholic school, Houston hip-hop, ecstatic experiences on drugs??) into coherent and eloquent introspections on being young(ish) and alive。

Stephanie

The only reason I’m not giving this 5 starts is because the essays “Reality TV Me” and “Ecstasy” were not nearly as memorable as the rest, and therefore felt extremely underwhelming。 Without them, this would have been a consistently well written and impactful book。

Sara

Incredibly interesting and well-written, but I just didn't read it at the right place/time for me。 Incredibly interesting and well-written, but I just didn't read it at the right place/time for me。 。。。more

Scarlett

threw in the towel on this one lol maybe I'll pick it up again but life is too short to read books you don't want to read no matter how trendy they are threw in the towel on this one lol maybe I'll pick it up again but life is too short to read books you don't want to read no matter how trendy they are 。。。more

Steph

I really wanted to like this more。 It just ended up frustrating me。 I really wanted some deep analysis and it felt more like she was just telling me stories of her life - which could be entertaining but just not what I thought this was about。 I feel like towards the end of her essay she would finally ramble onto a cohesive point where I was finally like yes!! And I wanted her to expand on it but then that was it。 I think my fave is the cult of the difficult woman。

Emily Wilczewski

This book put me in a reading slump :/ Just a lot of references to outside books, more so than original content。 But she did mention glossier 💅🏽

Cayla

All time favorite book